Are You In or Are You Out?

Make time to have some fun!

As I get older I find myself trying to simplify my life.  I don't know about you dear readers, but I find that going through life worrying about every detail is stressful!  You're stressed at work, home and everywhere for that matter, about everything!  What is the point of all this I wonder at times?  Life goes on if you should suddenly drop dead and in time you're forgotten by all but perhaps those that loved you the most.  We carry with us an unhealthy way of being, fighting, getting overly anxious, and driving ourselves into such a state of frenzy that we can hardly stand looking at ourselves in the mirror!

Truthfully, I do understand why we do what we do sometimes. It is because we care so much about our lives. (as we should) However, don't you think it is time we relax a little and not let our lives stress us out?  I will be the first to hold my hands up and confess to being a worrier.  I worry a lot, A LOT! I am however, learning to lessen that hold on my brain! I'm learning to de-stress and give my self some "Oo-saaahhh" moments! I'm doing that because I realize that I am not getting any younger.  I am also piling on the worry lines and the fat....oh, don't let me begin to start on that bit of information!  I am also becoming my own worse enemy by holding on to resentments; and that in a nutshell is why I have decided to STOP.

Now, that being said, of course I have to keep reminding myself to do what I said that I would, not worry!   I worry about my kids, my husband, my friends, bills, bills, and more bills! You too? Well, we've got to stop that nonsense doncha think?!  I was talking to a friend today and we both felt the same way. We're getting older, our kids getting older, and life continues. Even as a man, my friend tends to do the same thing. So this does not only affect us women!  We all need to make the time and really try to do something nice for ourselves, (and others) as often as we can!  Go out there and smell those flowers!  Just don't agitate your allergies while you're at it! One less thing to worry about! ~smile~